Read 1 Corinthians 2:1-16

What we say and how we say it not only makes a difference in the reaction we receive, but it also determines whether conflict or peace will result. How many arguments could be avoided and tense situations relaxed if we practiced the truth of this verse! Proverbs 15:1, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

The next time someone speaks to you in a harsh or angry tone, reverse the trend by expressing meekness, quietness of spirit, and loving concern. What a difference a soft answer can make in our relationships!

The Holy Spirit gives us God’s secret wisdom to handle any conflict in our personal lives or ministries. Paul wrote, “We speak of God’s secret wisdom, a wisdom that has been hidden and that God destined for our glory before time began…but God has revealed it to us by His Spirit.” (I Cor. 2:7,10)

Ask the Lord to give you the emotional, mental, cultural, Biblical, relational, organizational, ministry and spiritual wisdom to be able to handle conflicts as Jesus would.

The Holy Spirit gives us the peace to be able to realize that we are not responsible to solve every conflict. Some conflicts are beyond our ability to resolve so we must learn to handle only the problems within our God given area of responsibility. “Cast all your anxiety on him because He cares for you.” (I Pet .5:7) Pray for the serenity to cast your conflicts, outside of your responsibility, on the Lord.

The Holy Spirit uses conflicts to teach us how the Lord can use them to make” us better rather than bitter. “See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.” (Heb 12:15) Ask the Lord to help you learn, grow and get better as a result of your enlightened perspective whenever you encounter conflicts. (James 1:2-5)

The Holy Spirit allows us to become a positive example to others in how they may successfully manage conflicts. Jesus said, “Let your light shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” (Matt 5:16) Ask the Lord to let your cool headed approach to solving conflicts provide a positive example for others to think, pray and consult the Godly before allowing their emotions to get out of control.

The Holy Spirit uses conflicts to show us where are weak so we can become more mature. Paul wrote, “Speaking the truth in love, let us grow up in all aspects into Him who is the Head, even Christ.” (Eph. 4:15) Ask the Lord for a teachable spirit so that you and your church can be all that God wants it to be.

Grace & Peace

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